Sunday, August 8, 2010

PARALLEL SOARING OF TWO WORLDS WITH ONE FINAL DESTINATION


A forest bird never wants a cage. Henrik Ibsen

Watching free soaring of an eagle in the sky I caught myself at thought: what would I never trade in my life? And I figured out it without any hesitation. It’s FREEDOM. Humanity and nature are inseparable living in different worlds, but making it a single whole. Being human beings, living in the 21st century we still remain wild cats, those free-loving creatures from forest who will never accept confinement. It’s similar to losing yourself, but if you lose yourself, you will lose your whole life. We still turn on to wildlife, free soaring, free fall and free energy and reject cage and suppression. Each of us needs space, mental and physical rest, his own seashell that is never to be encroached by anybody.

What happens in relations between a man and a woman? Normally someone puts a dog collar on another partner and ties it so hard that the second one gets breathless in attempt to break it away. Both partners need to have space and respect for the freedom of both to keep and save passion and love throughout their life. A phone call with my mom and at the same time my best and close friend made me seriously think over my ideal relations. Strange how easily you change your priorities once you face some attempts to imprison you. But I’m sure it’s not about changing your priorities; it’s about better comprehending of who you are and your higher values. These are the values that make you as you are; they are like your registered trademark. It’s something you can’t breathe without, same as a fish needs water to survive, experiencing it and living the full life. When you grow up you start value this feeling more and more and consider it to be a priceless gift, if you really have a chance to experience this ocean of emotions with its rich underwater world. This feeling was given to you with the birth and I’m very sorry for those who live in a room with limited space and no windows.

Being here in California I learned to watch animals and birds, which live next door to people, but no one is allowed to interfere with the life of their neighbors. They live together supplementing each other and making the world harmonious and complete, but still they are two different worlds and exist simultaneously. Men and women are completely different creatures, but together they make this world of full value, leaving space for own creativity and mind sculpting to give more and more awesome and amazing moments, tenderness, attention and honor to each other.

5 comments:

  1. So the bird has taken flight. Where shall she go? What will be her guiding light? Her compass? How will she find her soulmate or will he find her? And then?????

    Enquiring minds would like to know....

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  2. Nice questions! If we knew the answers, life would have a different meaning :)... Time will tell the enquiring minds :)

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  3. I think that we as people have become so "civilized" that we forget the evolution of our brains are still hardwired for survival, each sex with it own specializations for dealing with survival of the species and that monogamy is a choice and a condition imposed and supported by society as a whole. Those who search for the ideal soul mate, a person who will see and think and agree with basically everything we think is our own trap and I believe is unfair to the other person and will surely lead to disappointment. Rather we should be more successful if we let go a little bit and if we are lucky we may find someone who will complement us as an addition to our own unique personalities.

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  4. ...and here I would like to support your work with words of one of my favorite writers,Hans Christian Andersen: "...Just living is not enough ... One must have sunshine, freedom, and a little flower." I think it sounds really very simple but lovely.

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  5. All lovely things and feelings sound simple :)

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