SIMPLE TRUTH

When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. Unknown

The most mysterious feeling, love, has the simplest essence, but we never know when we will be trapped… In fact, people always say indirectly what they feel, but we do not notice the verbal signs or gestures being absorbed in a daily routine. 

Have you ever heard the way your name sounds when it is pronounced by someone who loves you? I’ve never thought about this until I came across the above mentioned quote. I remembered all the people who experienced or still experience warmth and tenderness to me. Maybe some of them never spoke about their feelings, but I could sense that affection and love when they were pronouncing my name. It sounds in a different and more sophisticated way that I can’t describe or put into words… Same letters, same name, but huge difference in meaning and various emotions… We can’t hide real feelings and warmth, even though we try hard, in order not to show our weakness. At least we think it is weakness, but in fact, it is a real power and exceptional ability to expose feelings in a delicate, elegant and intelligent way without showing pride and arrogance.

When it comes to sympathy, we become more sensitive and vulnerable absorbing every detail of a partner’s behavior. Sometimes we are taken aback when talking to a person we like, but it shows our sympathy to a partner. Sometimes it tells you: “Oops, you’ve been ensnared by mysterious feelings…” Love is like a wildflower, you never know where and when you will find it…

One simple quote stopped me for a while to think of people I love and to estimate what I have. My next note is for you to read and recollect the people you passed by, paying no attention to the tender sounding of somebody’s voice…  

BAD BOY, GOOD GIRL, GOOD BOY, BAD GIRL

She: “For some unknown reason, bad-boys draw you in despite the fact they are jerks”. Alexis Bledel

He: "Women are like cell phones. They like to be held and talked to, but push the wrong button, and you'll be disconnected." Unknown

Even being grown up, we keep looking for hide-and-seek or cat-and-mouse games that warm up our mind and body. I always wondered why good girls go mad about bad boys and good boys attract bad girls. Is it a perfect match or something we need to reveal inside? Probably it’s something that one partner misses and wants to meet a lack of it with the help of another one to create a hot mix. Maybe sometimes we want someone to push that wrong button to be out of a system, experiencing true and real life. 

Well, I guess we can list tons of explanations, but I know for sure, that we become drawn toward intense and dramatic relations with a lot of obstacles and limitations on the way. We do not prefer those which are to be taken easily. If relations appear to be forbidden, it agitates mind even more and more, making you stubborn about seducing a man/woman you are interested in and getting him/her to fall for you. You prefer to seduce and be seduced whatever. We usually adore projecting situations and creating dangerous games for our mind. It makes us move forward in attempt to win a set, thereby testing inner power, logic, flexibility. 

American poet Maya Angelou once said: “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel”.  

Maybe we need someone, who dares to push a disconnecting button and inflame passion, savoring every moment despite the fact if it’s bad or good…  

BE SEXY...BE HOT..

BE SEXY…BE HOT…

While sitting at the best Italian restaurant in Marin County with my friends, tasting perfect cuisine from the Chef and the best Chardonnay I’ve ever tried, I heard a phrase from one of them: ‘Oh, she always looks sexy!’…I don’t know whom they were talking about, but I thought “WOW!”. I guess every woman in the world no matter how old she is would like to hear the same about herself. This is what I call Style by V., where ‘V’ always means Victory, Viva, Vivid…It’s all about YOU and no matter if you are dressed sexy or not. It’s the way you move, look, turn your head, walk, step, write, eat, speak, think, close your eyes, breath, the way you keep a glass of wine, the way you choose a car and drive…I can list plenty of things, because each peculiarity, tiny or insignificant and subtle thing or gesture plays a huge role. It’s your win-win style – lifestyle - that is always a success. It’s like a chemical reaction that works perfect if you add the elements according to proportion. If you add more or less, this or that element, the result will be absolutely different and opposite to the one you expect: the explosion may happen or not…

I remember when I was studying at the University we were performing a play for Christmas Eve and I happened to have the worst dress. First I felt upset but then I tried to concentrate on my role and feelings inside of me. The play was a real success and after that a friend of mine came up to me and said: ‘Your dress is so gorgeous, you look unbelievably amazing in it!’. I want to underline it again and again it’s YOU who makes a success of your own look. It’s about tasting ‘yummy’ being natural and self sustainable the same as high quality vegetables do not need much sauce to have a fantastic flavor in the salad. It’s like dessert that doesn’t look pompous, but you can’t stop eating it, get addicted to it and want more and more…